To walk a dog is essentially simple. At times it feels like a chore, but more often than not it's just really nice. Early morning is the best time to stroll in our neighborhood. Most cars and their stinky presence have yet to rise, so jasmine and orange blossoms creep into your nose and saturate your headspace. Many bowabs have begun their sunrise watering routines of rinsing flowers and trees, cars and sidewalks. You can feel and smell the wet, and imagine rain. Harley and I are happy as pigs in shit, this perfect time of day. But the moment the city wakes up, along with it's hundreds of feral felines and canines... one must beware. For behind any garbage can, beneath any parked car, atop any shrub or tree, they lie lawlessly in wait.
Last weekend, Justin and Harley came home from an early evening walk with bloody wounds and an unfortunate battle story. A gang of fierce street cats pounced out of the woodwork, screaming their deadly howls and leaving my guys cut-up on leg and nose. I've yet to have a run-in with cats, but have created a score of outrageous scenes fighting off the nastiest of pi dog packs.
Justin's first line of defense is carrying a rock in hand, which serves to threaten rather than attack. My strategy is to make as if seeing a bear in the wilderness... scream and act big. "AH! AH! GITOUTTAHERE, GIT!" I bark, flail my limbs and biggering belly, and push back. I swear, one could ride a small surfboard on the ripcurl of these dogs' gnarly snares.
While it feels good to protect and defend my own, I realize the dogs are just doing the same. The poor creatures have no caretaker to whom they can dedicate their hearts, so they dedicate them to the lonely streets they roam. And when it's the female dogs who come at us, as we all bark, I can't help but feel a respect and kinship... toward nipples hanging low and full, and defenseless pups somewhere nearby.
Beautiful People
Everywhere, there they are.
Standing next to me on the train in a black headscarf, a woman twice my age observes my pregnant self and offers me her seat.
On my weekly trip to Menar's farm, Ommy ow Magdi brings me tea sweetened with sugar and tells me to put my feet up. Ommy ow Magdi translates to 'mother of Magdi', which is how many women in the countryside are addressed once they've had children.
A cab driver from almost two months back with a smile so bright you need shades told Justin with deep pride and affection of his three beautiful daughters, all of whom were born at home. The youngest daughter is named May and he showed us a photograph. "If you have a daughter, you name her May." We are having a daughter and we have named her May.
Ostaz Gamal, a seventy-six year old man we met in February, narrates a tour through his beloved street garden on a long, wide median strip in downtown Heliopolis. We struggle happily to communicate with one another in broken English and broken Arabic. He names every flower and says with an endearing accent, "This one, very nice. This one, very beautiful." He explains that the Indian jasmine is a new transplant he hopes to cultivate into a canopy that will envelop passersby in it's fragrance... or in what he worded as "a beauuuuutiful smell tent". Yes! Sometimes, flowers and other items are stolen from the garden. Sometimes, they are simply broken and left behind. He says it makes his heart hurt, as the flowers are like his sons.
Ostaz Gamal is an ardent gardener and beloved community activist. In Arabic, 'ostaz' means 'mister' and 'gamal' translates to 'beauty'! I should say you sure do exude it, Ostaz Gamal. |
Indian jasmine... the beginnings of an intoxicating smell tent. |
The Red Sea
The world's northernmost tropical sea... a home to more than one thousand invertebrate species and two hundred varieties of coral... has now cleansed we three.
Through the Gulf of Aden, the Red Sea exchanges it's water with the Arabian Sea and the Indian Ocean. I love to think about this exchange. An exchange of salt water, a sharing of personal strength, a give and take of healing power. Still can't believe my body and May and J were in it.
I have two cousins, intrepid travelers inspired by our family's older generation of intrepid travelers, with a life aspiration of setting foot on every continent. Barb and Linda have long been on their way toward this goal. I think now of it's complementary goal that I might take on... to set my body in every ocean on this awe-some planet. Click here for a few more from our day at the Red Sea.
dear trish,
ReplyDeletejust love reading your posts. i feel like i'm there with you. what a beautiful way to tell the world about your daughter may! we love her already, as much as we do you.
keep finding beauty in these days...your time will be up before you know it...but i suspect that wanderlust has bitten you now, and hope that your wish of setting your body into all the seas of this world comes true one day :)
with love,
vandana and sumeet